Dedicated to the memory of Edwina Sarkissian

This site is a tribute to Edwina Roselyn Sarkissian (1938-2023).

Edwina Roselyn Sarkissian was born in Madras, India, in August 1938. Due to World War II, she was sent to Baldwins School in Bangalore with her older sister, Pam, and younger brothers, Fred and Barry. At boarding school, she became Head Girl and created lifelong friendships that spread across the globe. These relationships have endured for more than seven decades, cemented by regular Old Girls’ Reunions, many of which she organized.

After qualifying as a teacher in 1958, Edwina took her first post at the junior school of the prestigious St. Paul’s School in Darjeeling, where she met her future husband, Arshak Sarkissian. They married in England in August 1961. Edwina was a primary school teacher and Arshak worked for ICI Paints division. They had two daughters, Margaret and Jenny. The family moved from Slough to Tylers Green in Buckinghamshire, in 1974, where they lived happily for 47 years. After retirement, Edwina and Arshak were both devoted to their large and beautiful garden. They moved to Lichfield in 2021, to be closer to Jenny and her family.

They were long-time members of St. Margaret’s and Penn Churches in Tyler’s Green and Penn and, since moving to Lichfield, have attended St. Chad’s Church.

For many years, Edwina battled bravely with a form of muscular dystrophy. However, the final blow was a recent diagnosis of glioblastoma (an aggressive form of brain cancer) that was only discovered, by chance, at an advance stage. She was cared for at home for as long as possible in her two-month illness, before being admitted to St. Giles’ Hospice, where she spent her final two weeks being cared for by their wonderful staff. She passed away peacefully, with her family by her side, on December 27, 2023.

Edwina was a devoted sister, wife, mother, and grandmother. She is survived by her beloved husband of 62 years, Arshak; her siblings, Fred and Barry; children Margaret and Jenny, their respective husbands, Jerry and Alan; and her only and much-loved grandson, Raffi.

The full Eulogy can be found in the Journal section of this Tribute.

         

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After hearing Edwina's eulogy, I couldn't help but be impressed with her full life and involvement with everything and everybody. It made me think of a poem that was part of a very dear friend's passing. I was very moved by the poem and thought you may enjoy it too. Edwina had a very fine dash. The Dash A poem by Linda Ellis I read of a man who stood to speak At the tombstone of a friend, He referred to the dates on the tombstone, From the beginning to the end. He noted that first came the date of birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years, For that dash represents all the time That they spent alive on earth, And now only those who loved them Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own, The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard, Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what’s true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we’ve never loved before. If we treat each other with respect And more often wear a smile, Remembering that this special dash May only last a while. So when your eulogy is being read With your life’s actions to rehash, Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash?
From Steve Kelly
13th January 2024
We were blessed to have met Edwina (and Arshak) through MDSC and developed a friendship in recent times. Whilst too brief, it has been a privilege and honour to know someone of her grace and strength, and we will miss her. The following words by Kahlil Gibran seem so fitting - we hope they may provide some comfort along with happy memories of Edwina. “When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”
With love, Ruth & Roger
11th January 2024
My sister Ann and I were at Baldwins when Pam and Edwina were there.Ann was in Edwina’s class and I was two classes down and so ofcourse had little to do with the ‘seniors’. I met Edwina and Arshak when I came back to live in England after many years in the Far East and they were very welcoming at the Baldwinian Reunion and after that we had meals in each other’s houses. I remember being very proud that she was our Head girl.I shall miss her.
Joy (Nayudu) Siggers.Sending love and sympathy to Edwina’s family
8th January 2024
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